” To really love a woman
You gat to understand her
Gat to know her deep inside
Hear every thought
See every dream
And give her wings when she wants to fly”
Bryan Adams
Woman are not weaker in any sense, they may not be physically strong in the use of brute force like men do, that is more of a function of nurture than nature.
Every woman has a strength she can offer her man if he is worthy of it and knows how to awaken the best in her.
A woman may not be physically active like a man but spiritually she is light years ahead of him. Brute force is nothing when compared to the imaginative nature of woman. Put in ordianry language,imagination over powers logic irrespective of how strong that logic is.
Let paint a picture, can a man keep to his principles when in front of a nude woman he admires,or can he use logic to prevent junior from arising when in front of a nude woman.Even if all the holy men on the planet is praying for that man,the only thing that will save him is to flee,it is not a question of logical strength or any other,just flee….ben johnson. When holy men have been ruined by a simple and stupid skirt then talk of an ordianry man that does not have any qwalms with “chop and clean mouth” or when he sees a “free food”
Every woman can be more powerful than she ever envisages if only her man knows how to awaken her. An awakening achieved through open heart love.
To really love a woman,a man has to open his heart and keep his logic aside. Women do not make decision through logic,they are emotional and imaginative. Their imagination is the secret behind their sucex,a sucex gained when a man with a vision fertilises the womb of her imagination with the sperm of his ideas and vision.
A woman completes a man,without a woman,a man is nothing and can be nothing,beside every great man is a woman,either his wife or his mother and the major cause of the downfall of some great men is a woman. Even a habitually stupid woman can ruine a strong man if she is patient enough and knows what to do. Have you ever wondered why a woman calls a full grown man “baby” but we as men call them babe which to us does not mean a child rather it means a beautiful girl/lady but they now payback by calling us baby. That because they know how to handle you and make you do their bidding (though me am waiting for that woman that will call a full blown man like me baby,anyway no wahala if she does that as long as it comes with being “baby friendly” )
A woman is the womb of nature,just as a man gives her sperm and she nurtures it to a baby after nine months,so also can she nurture a mans vision to life if he her type.
A real man does not see women as complex beings, this is because he has learnt the secret to her heart. An open and simple secret
“to feel her from his heart and not reason her from his head”
This formula is difficult for most men being that men naturally supress their emotion and feelings and having to acknowledge what one runs away from is a challenge.
To love a woman you have to understand her,her fears,hopes,aspiration,reservation,hurts,secrets(which she lets you in only when you prove your worthiness to stand by her through thick and thin). This understanding is a means to an end,the end is to be her hero.
Lets hold break here and digress alittle.
This is where most men get it wrong,most men want to be a hero to a woman they barely understand or know anything about. The truth is that there are some kind of women you get close to and you get sucked into a black hole never to be seen again.
You need to be sure you are compactible with a woman before you try to be her hero. The only way to find out if you are compactible is to be her friends for sometime. Do not get into a relationship with a woman you barely know because if you will be her hero,you must treat her like a lady. This is where the problem lies,for some ladies,treating her like a lady means you will buy her every trending cloth or item,a new cloth for every occasion,a latest phones and lunch in choice restaurants. So if you meet this type and without knowing her,you promise her heaven and earth,when the time comes for you to act,hmmm,you will be unable to because either your principles conflict with her style or you lack the financial power to do those things. Learn your woman.
One cardinal rule her is not to be harsh with her, be gentle with her mistakes,never use abusive or mean words on your woman,it kills her spirit more than you can ever think of.
Be nice to her,acknowledge her strength and give her reasons to believe in herself.
When you become her true hero,you unknowingly transform her into a Queen in her element,you will even note a physical tranformation in her.
When a man truelly loves a woman,she will do him good all the days of her life,all his prayers will be answered and life becomes easier for him. Her imagination will birth a vista of sucex for him and he will experience a special kind of bliss like never before.
?Do you love your woman.
? Can you keep your logic for a while and try to feel her with your heart.
? Can you be vulnerable with her and seek strength in her wisdom and imagination.
Piece by Eleas stanley