Every friend represents a world in us, a word waiting to be born, a word born when “that” friend arrives in our life.
We have many friends,throughout life we acquire new and old friends. Sometimes we lose some of our golden friends and sometimes we lose our ignoble friends. When we lose the golden friends,we cry…… We feel deep pain
sometimes we try to endure by creating a stoical bravado
sometimes our shield fail.
The ultimate truth it’s that every friend represents a world in us. The nature of that world is dependent on who that friend is. Some friends teach us lessons about life while we teach some friends the lessons they need to have. Both ways lessons are taught for life is a school with unending lessons where every experience (including the people we associate with) is a teacher and plays a role in forming who we will become,.
Sometimes life forces some friends on us so we learn certain lessons about life or about ourselves. Somebody these lessons are learnt while the friend is there but some are learnt in the absence of the friend (when we may have become strangers) or when we have lost them.
Sometimes we lose friends to a new life.
Sometimes we lose them because they become strangers, sometimes we lose them because they their mask drops.
Sometimes we just move on,
Sometimes we lose lose them because we cannot afford to be open with them….we don’t want to be vulnerable.
In a of this, the ultimate question may not be how many friends we have lost or gained,
The ultimate question can be “what kind of friend are you”
Yes what kind of friend are you to those you call your friends.
What time do you okay in their growth and development.
Are you there when they need you.
Do you expect them to show you care or do you prefer to show them care.
Every friend represents a world…….. What world do you represent in your friends life.
Yes, that a question forbyou to ponder on.
Cheers
