The need for Appreciation of single mothers
THE REASONING
Women who have children while single are being looked upon as loose or fairly used material not to be respected but to be tolerated.
? But are these women truly loose. No I don’t think they are rather they are even the ones disciplined enough to bear the consequences of their actions. Consequence because, they have made mistakes just like every other person but refuse to take the mistake to another level like many other girls do. Many girls after taking in, abort the baby, now that bad enough; to waste a soul coming to life, not to talk of the nefarious methods used in these abortions. Some ladies have had up to 5 abortions in the last 4 years, if a statistics is taken on how many abortions ladies do before the age of 30,I believe it will be in a million per 100,000 girls. As a man, will you now prefer to date a lady that has the wicked and devilish mind to terminate a budding soul or the one that stood by the consequences of her action and dance to the drum beat she set in motion.
A mark of maturity is our ability to stand and face the consequences of our action for by so doing we learn the lessons involved in decision making which makes us more reasonable when next we want to make a decision.
Ladies who go on to have babies and have the faith to want to cater for this kids deserve more respect than those who have committed series of abortion.
THE RESPONSIBILITY
Reasoning this way ennobles men to appreciate women who have children. These babies do not devalue them in any way, rather it is a symbol of their leadership ability to stand by their decision and do whatever it takes to make it right.
If truly you love a woman then you should also love and accept her baby because she as a person loves her baby and whatever is of value to her should be of value to you too. Women may not be logically oriented but that does not mean weakness, it can be strength when they learn how to use it. When you accept a woman with her child, she treasures you beyond words because you have gone extra mile for her.
Leadership is our capacity to do what is right, is it right to kill young souls or is it right to nurture them to sucex. I believe it is right to nurture them to success. To be a man is not a days job, that because in the process of being a man, one comes across many challenges that will test his faith if truly he has what it takes to be a man and the real test of manhood is the ability to stand by a woman and give her strength when she is weak. As humans we are emotional creatures and emotions can elevate or drain us of all strength. Emotional pains are worse than physical pain, living in a conceited male superiority society, the fact of having a child puts a woman in a low emotional state because she knows people will disregard and disrespect her as if she has done the worst thing on earth. This mental attitude alone puts her mind in a low state, this is where the test of your manliness comes in, will you be her strength where she is weak or will you join the self righteous society to condemn the same woman you claim to love. Love is unconditional acceptance, an acceptance that creates a room for growth and wisdom to flourish.
Be a man, stand by your woman and give her the strength she needs.
Eleas Stanley