Introduction to types of people (frequency)
Due to increae in divorce,heartbreaks and heartaches associated with dating and marriage. There is a need to understand people and the frequency they resonate to. This knowledge is very crucial to emotional wellbeing,this is so because when people date people from other frquencies,troubles and heartache becomes a constant comapnion.
First we need to understand that the diffrence between men and woman is deeper than meet the eyes.
Secondly,we need understand that the whole diffrence between men and women boils down to the left and right brain orientation. That is,women make dicision from the right side of their brain while men make decision from the left side of the brain. these two side have very diffrent methods of thinking,feeling and wanting. Conceptually,i have associated the right brain with the heart thinking and the left brain with logical thinking.
We also need to take a very important and often neglected knowledge into the picture, that is the fact that,
“THINKING IS NOT DONE IN THE BRAIN”
The brain is more of a transformer or if we use a technical term,the brain is the central processing unit of the body.
Thirdly and most importantly,we need to stop conderming the opposite gender,i.e,we need to stopt this situation where men feel that women are stupid and women feel that men are insensitive.
To create harmony in our interaction as brothers,sister,husbands,wife,colleague and other social interaction,we need to study each person we are dealing with as a new project. Studing anybody you interact with is the key to harmony,without it,pain is inevitable. One area where we must study the other person is in our marital and dating relationship. When you understand your partner from a pure analysis devoid of gender bias then you will have a clue to the reason he or she does what s/he does and how to resolve the issue without damage to your relationship.
Fourthly,this classification can serve as a guide for you in chosing your relationship partner. Here it is vital to reteirate one cardinal principle of dating, marriage and interpersonal relationship- DO NOT TRY TO CHANGE PEOPLE. Observation has shown that people do not change from pressure coming from outside them,people only change when they decide to from their inside. The reason i include the change issue and its serving as a guide is that,sometimes people have initiated dating and marriage relationship with people who are not in their frequency, this in itself creates volcanic kind of underground stress, this stress erupts when there is an effort to change the other person. So to avoid this emotional tumoil,my best advice is to tango with people resonating at your frequency and save yourself heartache. Dont think that you are very religious so the love you have for your partner will conquere all ,no it would not ,religious teaching will only give you the fortitude to bear what will happen to you and as experience has shown only a few have endured great emotional pain without coming down with long term degenrative illhealth. This is so because the mind does not tolerate a vacume,every energy created must has go somewhere.
Having said these,lets delve into the talk and see the diffrent kinds of men and women.
Traditionally,ladies first. We start from the lowest on the rung to the highest.
Lastly,note that these description of types is not associated with temperament. These are a standalone description.
1-Habitually stupid woman
Priority-
1-Acquire material things
2- Look very flashy,do all you can to look good.
3- Use what you have to get what you want.
Attitude
1- Cut attention by all means,even if i go nude.
The habitually stupid woman is the one who has not discorvered herself,her priority is in acquiring material things and to look pretty always. Basically she is empty in the head and has nothing to offer any kind of man.
She is cheap,cheap here does not mean when she easily makes friends or easily give out her number, a woman can give her number easily or make friends easily and yet she is not cheap. A cheap woman is she who easily opens her leg especially for the highest bidder,even low bidders can still have a taste of her shrine as long as they have something to offer in return for the goodtime.
Secondly a cheap woman is the one who dates a man simply because she is lazy and cannot provide for herself hence the man in her life is her lifeline. he becomes the ” Alhaji bringi bringi” to bring all her needs while she passively enjoys all.
Gone are the days when men solely provided for the family,the times have changed,men now prefer working women industrious enough to earn something no matter how small. But for the cheap itchy leg,her major priority is to use expensive fashion which she cannot afford,she has no qualms fixing brazilian hair on a head that cannot pass jamb.
When in a relationship
Being cheap,a habitually stupid woman has nothing to offer a man beyond her itchy legs.
If a man hopes to build his home with this type,sorry will become his second name. This is the type that makes men go steal or do unethical things because they want to satisfy her need. If her itchy legs activates often with high intensity then the man needs to have the strength of a hulk else he is in trouble because she will have chains of service providers who are ever ready to have fun with her.
2-Musculised woman-
Priority
1-To be like men or to show men she is better
2- Very competitive
3- Sturborn to all male authority figure.
This kind of woman is comparing her self with a man,some of them believe that they are superior to men. They fail to realise that each gender is unique in its own right and has its special role to play. No gender is superior to the other. If a man feels that he is superior ro a woman then let him go and fertilise his sperm into a baby. If a woman feels she is superior to a man then let her impregnate another woman. Gender superiority is a vestige of our uninformed/unenlightened past age,today, knowledge has shown us that each gender is unique.
When in a relatiionship
This type will do everything to prove to her man that she is superior to him,even if it means sabotaging his effort so she will be more sucexful than him.
She can become irrationally stuborn just to prove to him that he cannot do her anything.
3-Dengerous woman
Priority
1- Hurt the men
2- Men are evil
This type is dengerous because her primary aim is to hurt any man that comes close. Maybe her past is full of hurts from men or she is naturally evil.
When in a relationship
This type mostly like to stay away from men but if you force yourself into their life,then pain will be your second surname.
4-Beautiful woman
Priority
1- To build herslf into a woman of integrity.
2- To improve society.
This type is the woman who understands her place as an incubator of sucex. She nurtures a mans goals to sucex. At this level,the mans goal is now “their” goal cos its built by the both of them. This is why its best for amna to find a woman who is compactible with him in the area of goals and vision. He is the originator that carries the sperm of the idea,the vision or the goal while she is the womb that nurtures that sperm into a full blown sucex. A beautiful woman understands her value and integrity,she is the throne upon which her man is made king. Every beautiful woman is the crown of her man because without her,he is nothing and will not achieve the greatness he achieves in his work.
Man
1- Good for nothing guy-
Priority
A- Enjoy myself very well.
B- Live in the now.
This type like his counterpart,the habitually stupid woman,he has not discorvered himself, he has nothing good to offer a woman,his only benefit is that he will damage her with his drlling bit. Everything on skirt is in trouble around this guy. This type can sweet talk an iron lady to give in to his crazy rod.
When in a relationship
This type will not be able to build anything good with a woman,rather he will give her constant pain by cheating on her with other women.
This type lacks the leadership capacity to protect a woman and or be her hero. How can he be a hero when the seat of his thinking faculty is in his drilling bit. This type sees women as difficult creatures.
2- Feminised man-
Priority
A- To be accepted by women.
B- To be nice to women(but he is overnice)
This type is a sisi,lacks any manly leadership composure or competence. He is basically weak.
When in a relationship
This type lacks any willpower to guide his woman,infact he will even look to his woman for strength. This is the type that goes to live in a womans house or allows a woman to pay his bills. Basically he lacks the male integrity and strength of leadership so he feels confortable when his woman pays the bills.
3- Dengerous guy-
Priority
A- be mean to women.
This type hates and or fears women hence he hurts women.
When in a relationship
He has much pain offer his woman,one powerful weapon he uses is to treat his woman as a second class citizen. He lacks respect for women. He sees woman as difficult specie that nobody can understand. He fails to understand that a mans greatness is measured by how much he is able to impact on his woman being that she is his Princess.
4- Gentleman-
Priority
A- To build his life with a woman.
B- To perpetually improve himself
This is the epitome of decency,he values a woman and treats her with the tender loving care she deserves.
When in a relationship
He seeks to understand her knowing she is a Rose to be cared for. He is well behaved and emotionally mature knowing that no woman will give her man her best if he is a cheat(if his drilling bit is a loose canon),he sticks to one her and builds his life with her.
Remember like we said,in a relationship, its best to mingle with people on the same frequency with you,stay away from those in other frequencies so you dont try to change anybody and bring down the worst kind of heart ache on yourself. This does not mean that people cannot change,the process of changing others is one that requires a very high level of maturity,skill and know how. The best that is advisable is to be a reason for others to change not to seek to change them.
Some men are the cause of their problems,eg when a gentleman sees a habitually stupid woman and goes on to date or marry her then starts complaining that she is stupid or perpetually seek to bring her to his level of reasoning. The truth is that he will fail because she will resent all his effort instead she will drag him to her level. But in the first place if he does not have some atom of stupidity,why will he go and mingle with a habitually stupid woman.
A relationship is not built for forgiveness neither is it to be endured. Do not make stupid choices to date or marry someone in another frquency in the name of love. In the past it was said that love is blind,my dear love is not blind,if you think love is blind,marriage will open your eyes. Dont make a stupid choice by marrying someone on another frequency then everyday you come to social media to preach that love/marriage is about forgiveness. Once you marry someone in another frequency,forgiveness will be your second surname because you guys are not and cannot be the same,everything each of you does will offend the other.
Every woman has the capacity to make or mar any man,even the strongest man can be reduced to nothing by a habitually stupid woman,infact sometimes,the stronger the man the easier it is for the woman to ruin him. Sometimes it is said that when a man loves a woman,he becomes her strength while she becomes his weaknes. This is very true but only in cases where a man mingles with a type that operates on another frequency or when she does not love him but he love her. Another situation where this applies is when a man belittle a dengerous woman or a musculise woman,all hell will be let loose on his head and he will pay dearly for it.
When a man loves a woman and she loves him back,creation stands till for them.
Love is a healing process that enables an individual to blossom his best hence one supreme task of a man is to find that woman who can be a helpmate to him.
If we delve alittle into the meaning of helpmate. Helper means someone who helps another achieve an aim or a set agenda. In the past when men where the breadwinners,he carried this cross alone,a woman was told to remain in the kitchen even if her academic qualification is higher than his own. Today the world has advanced beyond this dysfunctional method,today women are in the workforce earning even more than some men,a man cannot confortable tell his woman to ramain at home,most women of this modern age will not take that nonsense from their man.
What this means career wise is that,it is important for a man to search and get a woman who has similar vision like him cos thats the only way she will willingly support him,if his vision is not inline with her,she will confortably pursue her own career and allow him sort out his vision. In my opinion,that is not how marriage is designed to work, the woman is a support to a man. This support can come in form of good advice,insightful discussion,prayer for the vision since women by virtue of their use of the right brain have the capacity to connect to a higher power more than men. Men are apt to believe that they can do it on their own hence do not easily seek help whether from God or any other means.
In order for the dream to come true,its best to mingle with a woman who not only resides in your frequency but has similar vision with you.
Piece written by eleas stanley